This last weekend we kicked off an incredible new series we’re calling, “Weird…Because Normal Isn’t Working!” Why a series like this, one might ask? Well because we pulled some stats that, according to the standards and culture all around us, are considered to be pretty normal. What you’ll find after looking over these stats is that normal isn’t working; not at all. What’s more is that I believe that God has, is and will continue to call us to live as those who are “weird” (different, unique, strange, etc.) in comparison to the standard norm of the world around us. Check out these fast facts: “Normal”, by definition: (Oxford New English)
- Conform to a standard; usual, typical
- The usual, average, or typical state or condition
“Normal”, by statistics: Marriage – (according to: McKinley Irving, Family law)
- 41% of first-time marriages end in divorce
- 60% of second-time marriages end in divorce
- 73% of third-time marriages end in divorce
Debt – (according to: NerdWallet Finance)
- Average credit card debt per household in the U.S. is $15,191 with a majority of credit card holders occupying 3 or more credit cards at one time
- Average mortgage debt per household in the U.S. is $154,365 to date, with an average median household income of only $28,051 nationwide
- Average student loans for college graduates in the U.S. is $33,607 while the average a college graduate from the class of 2013 will make is only $45,327. After taxes, that’s $2,448 net income, which means that a student would have to work 13 months, 3 weeks in order to pay off their college debt, not including interest or other fixed expenses. Most graduating seniors will pay off their student loans somewhere between 10 to 25 years after graduation
- As of April, 2014, the total consumer debt within the U.S. is estimated at more than $11.68 trillion dollars
Obesity – (according to the Center for Disease Control)
- More than 1/3 or 34.9% of U.S. adults (over 19) are obese
- More than ½ or 69% of U.S. adults (over 19) are overweight
- The percentage of children aged 6 – 11 years in the U.S. who are obese has increased from 7% in 1980 to nearly 18% in 2012. Similarly, the percentage of adolescents aged 12 – 19 years of age has increased from 5% to 21%.
Education – (according to DoSomething.org)
- Every year, over 1.2 million students drop out of high school in the U.S. alone. That’s 1 student every 26 seconds – or 7,000 every day
- The U.S., which had some of the highest graduation rates of any developed country, now ranks 22nd out of 27 developed countries
Crime – (according to FBI.gov)
- In 2012, there were at estimated 1,214,462 violent crimes (murder, rape, fights, etc.) reported in the U.S.
- In 2012, an estimated 8,975,438 property crimes took place across the nation
- The FBI (Federal Bureau of Investigation) estimated that agencies made approximately 12.2 million arrests, excluding traffic violations, in 2012
- These crime rates have increased by 15% for violent crimes and 12% for property crimes each of the last 2 years
Alright, so I think that we can all agree that “normal” isn’t working, right?! So if “normal” isn’t working, what’s the alternative? It’s seems obvious enough, yet somehow or another so many of us mess it so often. The opposite of “normal” is “weird”, and that’s exactly what we’re called to: a weird life; a weird way of doing life and ministry. This past week we looked at what’s necessary for us to take a stand for God in living as one who is weird by all of the standards of the world. It begins and ends with taking a stand for God in the face of adversity. When no one else is willing to step up and step out, God calls us to conquer the GIANTS of normalcy in our lives, similar to how a teenage boy, David, stepped out and stepped up against a giant champion named Goliath from a community called, Gath. Daily, for forty days, twice a day, this dude would come out and defy the army of Israel as well as the God whom they served. While it had become normal for this to take place and for no one to do anything about it, David wasn’t willing to accept normal and so became weird in his attitude, approach and actions. It was awesome and is one of my most favorite stories throughout the Bible. If you want to read more about the story of David and Goliath, check out 1 Samuel 17 or click here.
There are 3 different lessons that we learn from David’s encounter with Goliath about what is necessary if we are going to take a stand for God and live as those who are called by God and considered weird based on the bias’ of the world we’re living in. Here they are:
- The ways of the world should feel uncomfortable to us (as Christians). In the story of David gearing up to take on Goliath, we learn that King Saul tries to outfit David, nothing more than a young teenage boy, with the armor of a grown man. David had never worn anything like this before nor was he well versed with a sword or spear. As he walked around in the armor a bit, it became painfully obvious that the gear was uncomfortable and wasn’t going to work.
o Like David, when we try the strategies and approaches of the world, they should feel foreign and uncomfortable to us.
o As the Spirit of the LORD is within us, is leading us and directing us, the normal ways of the world will feel less and less “normal” to us.
- Living for God, we should expect opposition. Is anyone surprise at the giant, Goliath’s, response when he sees David come to the battle line? Here is a kid and he’s calling out a dude that’s over 9′ tall, who’s body armor likely weighs more than the boy in front of him. Wow! Goliath opposes David, calls him all kinds of names and yells out murderous threats at the kid.
o The Bible never tells us that living for God, which will always be perceived as “weird” by the world’s standards, will be easy…
Matthew 10:22 (NIV) – Jesus said: “You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
o Winston Churchill once said, “You have enemies? Good. That means that you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”
o When we live to please God, we will be grossly misunderstood and judged. The world will always perceive us as “weird”.
- We are called to take a stand for God in the face of normalcy. Against common sense and man’s better judgement, the things that are to be considered relatively normal by the standards of the world, David had no business going to battle against Goliath. That didn’t matter! Instead, David recognized that God had a call on his life and he was willing to take a stand for God in the face of normalcy, regardless of what people were going to think and say of him as well as the obvious risks to his health.
o If we are going to follow God; His ways, His directives, His desire, His will for our lives – we must defy the standards of the world and take a stand for God
o Every day we have to come against and conquer the GIANTS that present themselves as pretty “normal” things in our world, things like:
- Sex outside of marriage (before marriage, extra-marital affairs)
When you and I learn to live our lives for Jesus, we will become “weird” to the world. We have to come to the place where we recognize that being weird is not only better than the alternative, “normal”, but that it’s an honor to answer the call to take a stand for God in the face of what this world considers normal. I asked the question yesterday in light of the word that we received from God, “what giant’s have you allowed to keep you from taking a stand for God in your life?” Here are some practical applications that we can make this week in taking a stand for God and in going to battle with our giants:
- Ask God to reveal the GIANTS you’re facing in your life; the “normalcy” of this world
- Be quiet and be available; allowing God to show you these things
- Make a list (write them out)
- Surrender them to God through prayer
- Look at your least every day this week and choose to stand against these GIANTS – surrendering each and every one as often as you need to, allowing God to move in your life in standing up to and in overcoming these GIANTS
I pray that you will find freedom from your giants today and that you will exercise the courage you’ll need to step up and step out in order to live the weird kind of life that God calls you to this week! ~Pastor Andrew